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 Posted: Mon Oct 20th, 2008 01:00 pm

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I am astonished at the absolute nastiness that is showing up on these boards against the poster Darwiniac....I believe Candace calls him "Coadi" because she thinks he's coadi from long ago.  Could be, I don't know.

What I don't understand is why some are behaving like they are still in high school?  Making fun of darwiniacs spelling errors, making fun of his grammer.  Also, for some reason Loryn wondered if he was even continent.  WHAT does his continence or lack thereof have to do with what is being discussed on these boards? 

http://aarm.mywowbb.com/view_topic.php?id=8020&forum_id=53&highlight=coadi

<snip> Toni said:
Yeah...I'd find it hard to believe he's a pastor. I question if he's even continent.

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I don't get what bladder/bowel control has to do with this subject????


Candace, I know that you have given up the Lord and no longer identify yourself with Christ, so there is not much I can say to you.

ToniLoryn, you are a Christian, correct?  Where does this mean spirited jesting fit into your walk with Christ?

I am angry at the level of rudeness here.  I'm sure I'll get told to "blank" myself, but at least I have the guts to say something.

Talk about wolves and pack mentality...sheesh.

Gayle

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Gayle wrote: I am astonished at the absolute nastiness that is showing up on these boards against the poster Darwiniac....I believe Candace calls him "Coadi" because she thinks he's coadi from long ago.  Could be, I don't know.

What I don't understand is why some are behaving like they are still in high school?  Making fun of darwiniacs spelling errors, making fun of his grammer.  Also, for some reason Loryn wondered if he was even continent.  WHAT does his continence or lack thereof have to do with what is being discussed on these boards? 

http://aarm.mywowbb.com/view_topic.php?id=8020&forum_id=53&highlight=coadi

<snip> Toni said:
Yeah...I'd find it hard to believe he's a pastor. I question if he's even continent.

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I don't get what bladder/bowel control has to do with this subject????


Candace, I know that you have given up the Lord and no longer identify yourself with Christ, so there is not much I can say to you.

ToniLoryn, you are a Christian, correct?  Where does this mean spirited jesting fit into your walk with Christ?

I am angry at the level of rudeness here.  I'm sure I'll get told to "blank" myself, but at least I have the guts to say something.

Talk about wolves and pack mentality...sheesh.

Gayle



Talk about wolves and pack mentality...sheesh.

Hiram: I've said the same thing a long time ago. No wonder they are so vehemently opposed to shooting wolves...

 



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 Posted: Mon Oct 20th, 2008 04:11 pm

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ToniLoryn wrote: I am not packing with anyone. I personally find him repugnant with the things he talks about. Mentally disturbed, incoherent and i was about ready to leave the board because of him. I've asked him a number of times to leave me alone and stop responding to me. Have you ever heard of confronting a sister in PRIVATE before you announce their sins to the world? You're not doing this right. But that's OK. I really just want the guy to leave me alone. Is that OK with you? I told Carol i was going to leave if he didn't stop bother me. He ANNOYS me to no end. And his racist comments pretty much left me with no room to work.
I did think about confronting your about this in PM, but as I thought about it more, I realized that you didn't post your insulting banter towards darwiniac in private, you posted it for all the board to see.  So I made the decision to confront you in this manner rather than in PM.  I understand that it upsets you though.

You wanted this guy to leave you alone, you find him repugnant and he annoys you to no end.  OK, got you on those points.  That still doesn't tell me WHY you posted such vile comments about his bathroom habits?

I understand that you don't want to leave the board, and I don't want you to leave the board either, but if "the board" makes you resort to such filth, well...it's not a good thing.

We have a responsibility as Christians to shine like Christ.  Others should SEE Christ through us.  Of course we all screw up, myself included.  But I would hope that if you saw me off the path so far IN PUBLIC that you would call me on it before I hurt my Christian Witness any more. 

I know you are ticked at me, and for that I'm sorry...really I am.

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ToniLoryn wrote: Because he was bothering me. Sorry i can't give you a more satisfying answer. It was a toss up between his bathroom habits and being surprised he can get dressed let alone type.

You obviously don't get what I was trying to say, because you are STILL insulting him.  :(

OK.

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Toni, you're forgetting how thrilled you were to post not once, but twice, another poster's insulting comments about me.  Also, don't forget how thrilled you were to tell me publicly that everyone here hates me. You do retaliate against those you dislike in an adolescent manner.


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Gayle:

I'm very pleased you are getting your energy back and getting involved in threads that you find disturbing, as well as admonishing those whom you find not performing to your ethical standards of posting.

My answer, though, is this:  what you feel or don't feel about what I write is irrelevant to me.

Your lovely "darwiniac" is coadi from CARM, identified by myself through his CARM ISP and by limana through his AARM ISP.  This is the cocksucker (see how unethically I post?) who referred to my three daughters (not only born in wedlock but the first born 4 YEARS after I was married) as "bastards" on CARM and who posted a death threat to homosexuals on CARM and then put my whole name and city in the thread right after he suggested that homosexuals in America be killed.  I had to force the Admins to delete the posts.

If you don't like my posts, don't read them.  I will not be censored by your or anyone else.

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Candace,

I didn't expect you to give a hoot what I thought either way, that's why I wrote that in my OP, that there wasn't much I could say to you.

I can understand that you would be very angry at Coadi, I would be too...but the junior high/middle school stuff is just so...I don't know...belittling?

You are one of the smartest posters here, that's why I always find it so odd when you get down and dirty when you can usually tie somone up quite nicely with one well turned phrase.

Just my opinion though.

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Sure, Toni.... let anybody say any nasty thing to you that they want, and just sit and smile.  Let people do evil to you and take it.  Lap up the shit and call it icecream if you want.

I tried that for a long time and it proved an old adage:  "nice guys finish last."  People will chew you up and spit you out if you let them.  People may write shit about me from the secrecy and comfort of their desk, secure in their cowardice, but nobody --NOBODY-- talks shit to my face, not  for a real long time. 

I will fucking die before I kowtow to ANYONE.

You do whatever the fuck you want.  Eat their shit and call it ice cream because they say Jesus wants you to.  I'm not doing it.

Or, just MAYBE you might decide that if you're big enough to say it or do it, you're big enough to take the consequences (if any) and don't need anybody to inform you when THEY don't like what you said or did.

Oh, and everyone?  There's a difference between me and a wolf....I shoot back.

Politically incorrect and mean Merlin

 

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(Why am I getting involved with this thread??) :shock: 

I, personally, don't remember Coadi from CARM, but I do remember how much you (and others) hated him. I guess he was a really crude character from the way you all described him and now he is here on AARM. I remember speculation that Coadi was a troll account that more than one poster would use in order to let their hair down and say the really nasty stuff they were thinking, but couldn't post under their own name. Is this still a possibility?

I'm thinking the powers that be on CARM are upset that AARM has come back to life. Perhaps "Coadi" is another attempt to bring AARM down again? If so, they seem to be succeeding.

I, myself, have yet to interact with "Coadi" and I had suggested the same  for Loryn when she PMed me telling me that she was thinking about leaving AARM for awhile.



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And just how chickenshit are you people to let some jackass come here to our board and "shut it down?"  Of COURSE the CARM admins use coadi as their pet pitbull.  I can't tell you how many times he would say some awful shit to someone on  their boards and cause a big huge mess and moderators would end up quitting and posters would leave and it would take a week to untangle and posters would get suspended left and right and it took hour after hout of somebody's time to straighten it all out and diane would just giggle and say, "he's so cute." 

If you all want to turn tail and run, go right the fuck ahead.  Me and A2SG and Aldaron and limana will be here when you get back.

 

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Then you have 3 choices:

1.  Ignore EVERYTHING coadi posts.  Don't respond to ANYTHING, not a single time;

2.  Let him insult everybody and everything and sit back and smile and try to write nice conciliatory posts to keep the peace;

3.  Develop a thick skin because you're going to need it here.

coadi is a typical controlling male-- he tries to censor through insult and intimidation.  If he doesn't like what is being said in a thread, he will go on a cyber temper tantrum, posting one cut and paste after another, filling the boards with the same insulting post, quoted over and over, in huge font, until people give up and let every nasty thing he has to say, go unchallenged.  You'll notice that other men here react in the same controlling male style:  they don't even bother to read what posters write before they leap to intimidate and silence.  This use of intimidation in posts suggests strongly that they have a history of spousal abuse.  coadi does this, stiggy does this, and hiram does it.  Yoda tries it but hasn't quite got it down yet, and just looks foolish when he starts up.

They don't like ANYBODY to question them or challenge them, and they go especially crazy when a woman does so. 

I don't give a rat's ass what these men like and what they don't.  I will say whatever the fuck I want to say and sit back and laugh at the temper tantrums.

You may do as you want in regards to interacting with them.  I know I do and will continue to do so.

 

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Merlin wrote: And just how chickenshit are you people to let some jackass come here to our board and "shut it down?"  Of COURSE the CARM admins use coadi as their pet pitbull.  I can't tell you how many times he would say some awful shit to someone on  their boards and cause a big huge mess and moderators would end up quitting and posters would leave and it would take a week to untangle and posters would get suspended left and right and it took hour after hout of somebody's time to straighten it all out and diane would just giggle and say, "he's so cute." 

If you all want to turn tail and run, go right the fuck ahead.  Me and A2SG and Aldaron and limana will be here when you get back.

 

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 Me and A2SG and Aldaron and limana will be here when you get back.

Hiram: Hells-Bells, that's something to look forward to.



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Hells-Bells, that's something to look forward to.  Has your life become that boring, hiram?



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